be grateful for what you have:
“Be thankful for what you have; you’ll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don’t have, you will never, ever have enough.”
It’s a human nature that he demands more and more in life. And those who have no control on their wishes will never be happy. There is a way to overcome this problem, if you look around, you may find some people with better status than you and there would be some people around you who are struggling for their basic needs like food, clean water, shelter etc. I had seen many disable people in my life and they are happier than us. Go and meet with them and ask the secret of happy life. You will find that they are acting same as like Oprah Winfrey said in above mentioned quote.
Don’t be jealous on what others have, because comparison is the thief of joy. Let’s try to act happy in someone’s success. You will feel internally comfortable and better. Successful people always remain calm and happy on what they have.
Serve yourself for others:
Work and live to serve others, to leave the world a little better than you found it and garner for yourself as much peace of mind as you can. This is happiness.
World no doubt is developing rapidly, but no one can deny this fact that our comfort is actually inversely proportional to it. Serving yourself for others is a frame of thought which is likely to build from childhood. A famous social worker Abdul sattar Edhi one told that” In childhood my mother gives me daily 2 rupees when I was in school, and she always odder me to serve one rupee to needy and one rupee is for you”. Now, he is owner of one the largest social network. Therefore if you want to establish such characters, you have to create these kinds of thought in children’s. But for sure you will be internally satisfied in entire life.
Spend time with your loved ones:
There is nothing in this world costs more than your time. In the happiest and saddest times, we want company of our loved ones. And there are many other examples when you won’t be happy without your beloved ones. I have seen people, they have everything in their life. But their children’s life gets worst which caused a constant pain, and they lost their comfort. That happened because they never spent their times with their children’s. Invest your time for your dearest ones, will help you in present and future. So start to spend your time with them, it will bring a great satisfaction in your life.
Exercise and healthy activity:
Confidence is very important and basic requirement for comfort in your life. And it’s directly linked with your physical health. If you are physically fit than you will be safe from any disease. You just need to exercise thirty to forty minutes daily. Make a timetable and spend your life according to that particular schedule. You will feel easy and it makes noticeable improvement in your life. In this way you deal with every matter of your life. This exercise will give you ease and comfort.
- Work hard to achieve your aims:
It’s a common experience, if you spent your day doing nothing you will be uncomfortable at night. But if you did hard work all the day you will be easy at the night. In addition hard work to make you dreams true will make you happy and satisfied. All the successful people in this world tried hard to achieve their goals. They have common habit to make every day important. Don’t waste you single minute and make your time worthfull. It’s another best way to make yourself internally happy comfortable.
And don’t forget this quote:
“Work hard in silence; let your success be your noise”